Run Your Own Race

As social beings, humans naturally compare themselves to others. It can often be useful for survival to know whether you can beat an opponent or should run to safer ground. But comparisons are more trouble than they are worth. Why compare yourself to others and feel bad if you aren’t up to snuff?

Comparing ourselves to others can do more harm than good. If we are doing more poorly, we'll feel inadequate. And it isn't always the case that we are performing below par. Each person has his or her own personal history or circumstances that shaped his or her life. People differ in terms of personality, intellectual skills, and life experiences. Any or all of these factors can influence one's performance. It makes little sense to beat yourself up because you haven't achieved a level of performance equal to someone else who had advantages that you didn't have. In the end, the only person you can compare yourself to is you. If you make any comparisons at all, it should be against your own past performance, not someone else's. If life is a race, you should run your own race. Competing with others makes us feel good when we win, but most of the time, comparisons make us feel bad. Making comparisons can stifle creativity. It’s better to avoid such comparisons and appreciate your own talents and skills. If you do the best with what you have, you will feel better and be more productive.

Successful people in all fields avoid making comparisons to others. In the end, the only person's opinion that matters is your own. If you believe you are doing well, then that is all that matters. So when you find yourself comparing yourself to others, stop. The more you can focus on your own standards, the more successful you will be.